Monday, May 08, 2006

People take a while to recover

It's been over a year now since I left this level of living on earth with Polly and Lamb Chop. Polly still talks to me at least once a day, and calls out to me when Sirius (now renamed after me as Sirius-Churchill) blazes its blue light into the night sky. She kisses my pictures at night and touches my ashes in the small white urn; ceramic, because it breathes.

There is now another family member -- Jesse, a 50-pound Lab-Border collie mix who is pitch black with dark brown eyes. He has always been a part of our family as his family lived with us for a while. Now Jesse has diabetes and is a challenge to care for, for ordinary people, anyhow. But I nudged Polly a bit and reminded her that because of all the care she had given me she knew exactly how to take care of Jesse, and she wouldn't be afraid of the ups and downs of dealing with diabetes. And I was right. She begged to keep Jesse, and it worked.

Now Jesse is busy herding Lamb Chop and the other neighborhood dogs, and makes sure Polly has three or four long runs a day, as he needs lots of exercise. They go up and around all the paths that we used to take, through the woods and grass. Sometimes she talks to me then, as well.

Saturday, May 14, 2005

Lesson from an Apricot Miniature Poodle - Churchill McElwain-Brown

My dog Churchill McElwain-Brown, who died at Christmastime this year, was 17 years and one month. He had dealt with chronic health issues for the last two years of his life. He was blessed not only with a good regular vet, but with a great holistic vet (Dr. Evans of Minneapolis), as well as an amazing pet psychic (Bonnie Illias of Hinkly, MN). I have learned so many lessons from my experiences with Churchill that I feel compelled to blog them, in hopes that others may benefit as well, and learn from my mistakes.

The first think I would like to say is that I have learned from Churchill, who was engaged in the art of living in the present until he could no longer hold on, is to do just that -- to sink oneself into the present, to immerse onself completely in the moment. Whether we are feeling good or not, we can do that. We can breathe, see, hear, feel and experience those around us, as well as the joy of nature and the season, and the day's weather, whatever that may be.

We can simply be. We can be victorious by just doing that.

So this blog is dedicated to the wisdom (Tao) of Churchill, from his viewpoint.



Pamela "Polly" McElwain-Brown
Minneapolis, Minnesota USA